Preventing Child Abuse

1. Stay involved in your child’s life

Know their activities, friendships, online presence, and the adults interacting with them.

2. Watch for grooming or manipulative behavior

Warning signs may include adults who:

• Seek to spend time alone with your child
• Ignore privacy boundaries
• Give gifts or money without reason

3. Choose safe organizations

Ask how programs screen staff and volunteers, monitor interactions, and prevent one‑on‑one situations.
For example: Boys & Girls Clubs require background checks for all staff and volunteers and prohibit one‑on‑one adult/youth contact.

4. Encourage open communication

Remind children they can talk to you about anything that confuses, scares, or concerns them.

5. Teach correct names for private body parts

This helps children clearly communicate if something happens.

6. Empower children to practice body autonomy

Let them say “no” to unwanted touch — even from family members.
Avoid forcing hugs or physical affection; it teaches the wrong message.

7. Explain good secrets vs. bad secrets

Good secrets feel exciting (like birthday surprises).
Bad secrets feel scary, confusing, or uncomfortable.

8. Monitor technology use

Review friend lists, messages, and apps regularly.
Talk about online safety, boundaries, and cyberbullying.

9. Trust your instincts

If something doesn’t feel right, don’t ignore that feeling — ask questions.

10. If a child discloses abuse

• Stay calm
• Listen carefully
• Never blame them
• Thank them for telling you
• Report the situation immediately